Learn
to take it one day at a time. Instead of worrying about how
you will get through the rest of the week or coming month,
try to focus on today. Each day can provide us with different
opportunities to learn new things and that includes learning
how to deal with your problems. Focus on the present and stop
trying to predict what may happen next week. Next week will
take care of itself.
A good
way to manage your fear is to challenge your negative thinking
with positive statements and realistic thinking. When encountering
thoughts that make your fearful or anxious, challenge those
thoughts by asking yourself questions that will maintain objectivity
and common sense.
Sometimes,
we may be nervous doing a certain task that may be scary.
When this happens, visualize yourself doing the task in your
mind. For instance, you and your team have to play in the
championship game in front of a large group of people in the
next few days. Before the big day comes, imagine yourself
playing the game in your mind. Imagine that you are playing
in front of a large audience. By playing the game in your
mind, you will be better prepared to perform for real when
the time comes. Self-Visualization is a great way to reduce
the fear and stress of a coming situation.
Remember
that no one can predict the future with one hundred percent
certainty. Even if the thing that you feared does happen there
are circumstances and factors that you can’t predict
which can be used to your advantage. For instance, let’s
say at your place of work that you miss the deadline for a
project you have been working on for the last few months.
Everything you feared is coming true. Suddenly, your boss
comes to your office and tells you that the deadline is extended
and that he forgot to tell you the day before. This unknown
factor changes everything. Remember: we may be ninety-nine
percent correct in predicting the future, but all it takes
is for that one percent to make a world of difference.
Be smart
in how you deal with your fears. Do not try to tackle everything
all at once. When facing a current or upcoming task that overwhelms
you with a lot of anxiety, break the task into a series of
smaller steps. Completing these smaller tasks one at a time
will make the stress more manageable and increases your chances
of success.
The important
thing is to get the proper help by seeing a professional.
Avoiding your problem will do nothing in the long run. Managing
your bipolar disorder and your fears will take some hard work.
Be patience, persistent and stay committed in trying to solve
your problem.
About
the Author: Stan Popovich is the author of "A Layman's
Guide to Managing Fear Using Psychology, Christianity and
Non Resistant Methods" - an easy to read book that presents
a general overview of techniques that are effective in managing
persistent fears and anxieties. For additional information
go to: www.managingfear.com