Think
about your own weight loss history. What are some
“old habits” that easily get you into
trouble? Is it buying chips or ice cream again after
you’ve avoided them for months? Perhaps a couple
of glasses of wine before dinner? Maybe you spend
more time in the break room where you can’t
resist the doughnuts and other goodies. Or you slide
back into using food to cope with stress or depression.
Identify
your old habits
Take
out a piece of paper and make a list of all the old
habits that you know cause problems with your maintenance
goals. Once you complete the list, keep it around
to remind yourself of these danger areas. Then create
a few strategies to protect yourself from letting
these old habits sneak back into your life.
Now
you have a good system for recognizing and preventing
old patterns from causing the scale to go back up.
But here’s a funny thing—in the same way
that it’s easy to slip back into OLD habits,
you can also slip AWAY from your healthy ones.
For
example, how many times have you resolved to floss
your teeth every day? Have you been able to make that
into a habit? Personally, I have to re-create that
one every couple of months!
Once
you build new habits, you need to make them so strong
that you can’t imagine life without them. One
of the best ways to do this is through repetition—doing
the habit over and over until it feels permanent.
Replace
old with new
On
the piece of paper where you described old habits
to avoid, create a list called “New Habits in
My Life.” Include some of the things you’re
already doing such as eating breakfast every day,
not skipping meals and carrying a water bottle with
you.
In
your daily routines, look for ways to shake things
up. For example, instead of heading straight for the
refrigerator when you get home from work, try reading
the mail over a cup of hot tea. Break up problem rituals
by entering your driveway from the opposite side or
using the back door of your home instead of your usual
entrance.
When you’re sitting down to watch TV football
games, switch from drinking beer to having a diet
soda. If you always search for something to eat before
you get ready for to bed, consider relaxing with a
warm bath.
Besides your routine, daily patterns, create habits
that you can use year after year to manage holidays,
birthdays or vacations. For example, if your family
rituals include making huge meals or eating ice cream
together, figure out how to stop yourself from automatically
joining in. You might need to invent new ways to feel
connected to others, even if you’re the only
person in the group who changes.
Old
habits will get you in trouble every time. So instead
of proclaiming you’ll never gain your weight
back, build a set of new habits and healthy patterns
that will guarantee you can make this a reality.
About
the Author:
Linda Spangle, RN, MA, is a weight-loss coach specializing
in emotional eating, and the author of 100
Days of Weight Loss
,
a book of daily lessons that helps people stay committed
to their diet and exercise plans. Her website is www.foodiseasy.com