Mommyland

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I'm a mom, a wife and I cook for a living. I'm 26 years old and just found out I'm expecting our second baby. I love to be at home hanging out with my family and getting crafty whenever I can fine the time.

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October 10th, 2011

How to make your own rice milk!

The other day, I was talking to my friend E.  I admire the way she feeds her family: organic, natural, wholesome foods all the way.  The problem is, I’m just too cheap to make that switch.  I’ve always got my eyes peeled for small changes we can make, and I found one.  E told me about homemade rice milk.  I assumed it was difficult, time consuming, or otherwise excusable.  It’s not.  Rice milk is ultra easy to make, and fabulous!

This recipe is very forgiving, and I honestly didn’t measure anything, but you’ll get the idea.

Rice Milk Recipe

  • 1 cup brown rice
  • 4 cups water
  • Vanilla extract
  • Sugar
  • Extra water for thinning

Simmer water and rice for a few hours until the rice is mushy.  Give it an occasional stir.  If the water level gets low, just toss in a little more.  Again, this is not specific, so just roll with it.  Blend the cooked rice and water quickly.  I did this in two batches, running the blender for about 10 seconds each time.  Strain; a nut bag would probably work best, or a couple of layers of cheesecloth.  Go figure, I didn’t have either on hand, so I just used a fine metal strainer; it worked ok and honestly, I’ll probably just do it again this way next time.

At this point, the rice milk will be very thick and pretty bland, but totally usable.  Right now, you could use it in place of cream in a lot of recipes, but I prefer to add vanilla, sugar, and some more water.  It makes the milk more like the stuff you buy in the store in quarts.  After thinning, I ended up with 8 cups of rice milk and added about a tablespoon of vanilla and 2 tablespoons of sugar.  Thin the rice milk as little or as much as you want; there’s no wrong answer here.

Store it in the fridge and use it up in about a week.

OK, now go try it!  For the cost of a cup of rice, what have you got to lose!?

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June 20th, 2011

Shoot… now I’m that mom

Hubs and Junior love to wrestle and play fight.  Until recently, it’s all been in good fun.  But now, my sweet, mild mannered, loving Junior is the group hitter.  Yesterday at a play date, he ran up and hit a little boy out of nowhere.  I knew exactly where he got it from.  That’s the game he and Hubs play; when one of them isn’t looking, the other play hits him.  Kinda cute when it’s father and son.  Toddler on toddler isn’t so cute.  I made him go apologize and explained that it’s a game that he only plays with Daddy.

Today, we were at a going away party, and I hear a kid in the playroom scream.  I knew it wasn’t Junior’s cry, but given what happened yesterday, I went running.  The crier was pointing at Junior, and I knew what was up.  When he realized he was busted, he started to cry and wouldn’t answer me.  Turns out, the other boy was playing with a ball.  Junior wanted it, so he hit him.

This isn’t my sweet little boy.  I sort of blew of yesterday’s incident as a game played at the wrong time, but hitting out of aggression is a whole different story.  Not that either situation is ok, but at least what happened yesterday wasn’t meanness intended to hurt someone.  Of course, I made him apologize and removed him from the situation.  After we left, we had a talk.  He even said, “hitting people is not a great choice to make friends.”  I know he gets it, but what’s the deal?  Now he’s that mean kid, and I’m that mom.  Crap.  I guess it’s time for some real parenting.

June 16th, 2011

Love Child cookies

A s’more and a macaroon walk into a bar… Have you heard this one already?  No?  Good.  Ok, so a s’more and a macaroon walk into a bar.  Nine months later, this amazing bar cookie entered the world.  I may not have a career as a comic, but I can bake some mean cookies!  Why do I call them Love Child cookies?  Because, if a s’more and a macaroon could have a love child, this would be it.

Love Child bar cookies

  • 2 packages graham crackers, crushed
  • 1/2 cup butter, melted
  • 1 14oz can of sweetened condensed milk
  • 2 tsp vanilla
  • 3 cups shredded coconut
  • 1 12oz package chocolate chips
  • 2 cups mini-marshmallows

1. Preheat oven to 350 degrees.  Lightly grease a 9×13 pan (if you have a bar cookie pan, use it.  If not, anything about this size works great).

2. Combine graham cracker crumbs and butter.  Press into pan.  Bake 8 minutes.

3. Meanwhile, combine remaining ingredients.  When the crust comes out of the oven, spread the coconut mixture over the crust.

4. Bake again for 10-12 minutes or until top is golden brown.

5. Cool and cut into squares.

Enjoy!

June 10th, 2011

Gone but never forgotten

Today, my aunt has been on my heart and my mind.  It’s been almost exactly 7 years since she passed away.  Her daughter, my cousin, has been one of my closest friends since we were babies.  I remember how much I loved sleeping over at their house.  Of course, playing with my cousin was the main draw, but my aunt always made it so much fun.  I still remember one of my cousin’s birthday parties.  She must have been turning 10 or so.  My aunt must have bought every junk food under the sun, cases of gourmet soda and tons of ice cream.  She knew just how to spoil us.  Of course, my uncle’s amazing breakfasts were always a treat too.

By the time we were both in high school, my cousin and I grew apart a little.  We had our own friends, our own hobbies.  We didn’t see each other much and I didn’t see much of my aunt.  After high school, my cousin and I moved into a house together maybe a mile from her parents’ house.  I got a chance to be reminded how loving my aunt was, how giving she could be.  Once a week, she’d stop by our house and drop something off, most of the time it was food.  We’d sit and chat for hours.

I truly cherish that time my cousin and I lived together.  Not just for Read the rest of this entry »

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June 9th, 2011

Father’s day gift from the kids

On a budget?  Don’t know what the kids should give their dad for Father’s Day?  I’ve got an idea for you!  Let the kids paint him a Tie T-shirt.

Here’s what you’ll need:

  • A solid color t-shirt
  • Freezer paper (you can find this at the grocery store)
  • Acrylic craft paint
  • Fabric medium (this will be at a craft store near the craft paints)
  • Paint brush(es) – I like the cheap foam ones

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June 6th, 2011

Get started in cloth for ultra cheap!

Cloth diapering is usually pretty cost effective in the long run (unless you get sucked by the cuteness and buy WAY more than you need!), but the start up costs can be a tough hurdle.  You can buy a pack of disposable diapers for $10 and diaper your baby for a few days.  $10 doesn’t buy a single diaper in the big name brands, but there’s good news.  There are cheap ways to get started.  Check your local Craigslist.  You can almost always find some on there.

Thanks to my online mommy friends, I now have an even better idea.  Order a dozen Prefold diapers.  I love the Imagine line from Nicki’s Diapers.  While you’re there, get a set of diaper pins.  In the couple of days, while you wait for your diapers to arrive, hit the nearest fabric store and buy 1 yard of fleece.  Then follow this tutorial.  It’s stinkin’ brilliant.  She used a sewing machine, but you can absolutely just hand-stitch a couple of pleats.  You can do all this for less than $40.

Month #1 – You’ll have to commit to washing your diapers every day, but you can do it.  It’s just one month.  Every time you would have bought disposables, set aside that money.  At the end of the month, use that money to buy another dozen prefolds and a few covers. (I like Proraps for their price, and they work great)

Month #2 – Keep setting aside your diaper money.  Now you can start going 2 days between washes.  Again, at the end of the month, use your savings to buy some more diapers.  You’ve probably got enough now to buy a couple of pockets or all-in-one diapers if you want to try those out.  I would suggest buying one each of as many different styles as you can.  Then you can figure out your favorites.  This is a great time to look into some pre-loved diapers on Craigslist.

Month #3 – Read the rest of this entry »

May 30th, 2011

You gotta try this!

Dig out your waffle iron.  You know, the one you got for a wedding present that you used twice before it moved to the back of the biggest, darkest cupboard in your kitchen.  Dust it off, plug it in, and call the kids into the kitchen.  They’ll want to help with this one.

Prepare a boxed cake mix to the package directions.  Any kind you want.  With your waffle iron hot, spray it with some non-stick cooking spray (or out a little oil on a paper towel and wipe it down).  Here’s the magic: just put some cake batter on the waffle iron and close it.  In about 4 minutes, you’ve got waffle cakes!

Want to get really decadent?  Throw a scoop of ice cream on top and make a sundae out of it. Yummy and so much fun!

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May 13th, 2011

More than a playgroup, but not quite a preschool…

I want to be hands on with Junior’s education.  I want to be a part of the foundation of his learning.  It’s incredibly important to me to help shape and understand how he learns.  I’m not sure I’m cut out to be a full on homeschooler, but I think for the preschool years, I’m going to take on Junior’s education.

And here’s my thought.  I call it “mini-school”.  I’m hoping to find a group of local moms who feel the same way I do, so that we can work together to teach our kids.  This is how it would work in my dream world.  I’d spend this summer setting up a curriculum.  Starting in September, with a group of maybe 6 kids, Mini-school will start.  Two to three days a week, the moms and their children would come over and start out with a little free play, then the Mini-school kids will head to the kitchen table while another mom supervises the other kids playing in another room.  Myself and the remaining moms will all work together teaching that day’s lessons: things like letter recognition, early reading, beginning math, science experiments, art and music. During free play, stories, and snacks, the younger kids will be encouraged to participate.

Essentially, each mom will be in charge of “homeschooling” her own child, but we’ll do it as a group.  Moms with strengths in Read the rest of this entry »

May 5th, 2011

Bad Mommy Day

I’m having one heck of a bad mommy day.  I kinda want to cry at this point.  Deuce has been crying all morning pretty much.  My only successful attempts at getting him to stop have been feeding or the walk/bounce routine.  Neither of which can be done all the time. Since he’s been on Zantac, this has been the first really rough day and boy has it been rough.  I thought he was finally asleep, swaddled him up and put him gently in his swing.  At almost 12:30, it was about time to change out of my pajamas.  Within moments, he’s screaming again.  Sometimes I’m just at a loss.  I don’t know what to do on days like this.

Junior is such a trooper.  On days like this, I think he knows I’m stressed.  He’s extra giving with love and hugs today.  Thank goodness for one easy kid!

May 2nd, 2011

Reflux sucks!

It took until Deuce was 9 weeks old to realize that all of his crying wasn’t just some evil plan to drive me crazy.  Poor kid was in pain.  It took me a while to piece together when he was crying compared to eating, spitting up, etc.  It honestly makes me feel horrible.  There were these moments where I’d be silently cursing his screams, thinking what could you possibly want?, days where I wanted to just let him cry so I could shower in peace.  And all along, my baby was actually in pain.  God, I wish there was a way he could have just told me.

He’s been on Zantac for a week now and there’s been such a difference.  He’s still nowhere as easy as his big brother was as a baby, but much better than a few weeks ago.  He’s happier, more smiley, and sleeps better.  Ah and those smiles.  They’ll melt your heart.height=”1″ />

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