When my oldest was born I was all like….”Yeah yeah yeah…..I got this. I won’t talk to her like she’s a baby, I won’t homeschool her. I won’t spoil her. I won’t blah blah blah…”. Then Lex was born and I was all like “OH MY GOD HE IS NEVER LEAVING MY SIDE!!!!” See what getting old does to you? It makes you weak! Just terrible. For four years my son was always with me. We did everything together, the park, Chuck-E-Cheese, shopping….everything! He was never away from me. And he was very shy. His Dad and I thought that putting him in preschool would help him come out of his shell. It didn’t. Then came Kindergarten and we were so sure that this would be the year he really shined and showed everyone the brilliant child we saw at home every day. It wasn’t. First grade……I won’t even talk about first grade. It was so bad that I actually contemplated homeschooling him. That is actually what I really wanted to do. I wanted to keep him home, safe, with me. Forever. But I didn’t. We were moving to a new town and I thought “One more year. Let’s give this school a chance. Maybe it isn’t him.” and here we are, second grade, a new school and a new teacher. And things are still the same. BUT, his teacher isn’t like the others. She has taken the time to actually look deeper, and she has seen what we see every day. She just can’t get him to to show it. And do you know why??? Because of me. Me and my “OMG HE IS NEVER LEAVING MY SIDE!!!” I have bottled my son up Read the rest of this entry »
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My name is Nina, but the little people running around my house call me Mommy. :) The MAN and I have been married for almost 9 years and it hasn't always been easy, but it has been FUN!! Together we have 3 kids, 3 dogs and 2 cats. So yeah, we're busy. I enjoy cooking, baking, reading, taking pictures of my kids, gardening and just generally spending time with my family. I love blogging about my everyday life as a Mommy and wife. There is never a dull moment!
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Yes, I am just a bit excited about Fall. I love the cold mornings, colorful trees, warm sunshine, apple picking and of course all the pumpkin flavored everything! McDonald’s now has a pumpkin latte that is SOOOOO good!!!! You have to try it. Anyway! The kids have been doing crafts so I can decorate the house. I go to the dollar store and buy cheap things so it’s easy and affordable. The kids love the Fall. Lex likes that he can wear his Creeper hoodie and not be hot. Lo loves her footsie pajamas and cuddling. One of the downfalls is that my poor old dogs have a hard time walking when it’s cold. Chewy has degenerative disc disease and both dogs arthritis. So the cold is tough on them. I have upped their glucosamine to daily instead of weekly. Gotta get a jump start on that before my poor dogs can’t walk. Other than that we are ready for Fall and looking forward to all the fun activities, without the sweat.
When my teenager was little I thought “There is no way anyone can be as dramatic as this child”. Universe, that was not a challenge. My Lo is 5 now and she isn’t annoying dramatic, she’s just very dramatic. Everything is all about love, cuddles, how much she misses me, how she can’t live without me…..it’s cute, to an extent. I don’t mind the over play of love and emotions when we’re at home, but when we are in the middle of morning routine and she starts, it can drag on. For example…..every morning I ask the kids if they want home lunch or school lunch, and every morning I get the same response….Lex: “School lunch!!!”, and Lo: “Home lunch, because I like to eat the food you make for me with love because I miss you so much when I’m at school and I love you, Mom!!” A simple “Home lunch!” would have been just fine.. If I don’t stop her in her tracks then she goes on and on and on and on and then drop off is Hell. Don’t get me wrong, I love her to death! But I cannot feed into her dramatics every morning, we have a routine and if I don’t keep it, she will no do well. Last week she was refusing to go into the school, the teachers had to pry her off of me and take her to class. That’s a terrible thing for a mother, and child, to have to go through. So Lex had the brilliant idea that he would walk her to her class every morning. My little hero. And so far, it’s working out great. This week has gone by so smoothly. Next, we are going to transition into car drop off. There will be a few rainy days that will be perfect for that. I want her to go to school happy, not sad and distressed because she misses me. I also don’t want her to think I’m dropping her off and running away. And seriously, how could I run away from a face like this……….
But it isn’t. Especially when my life has been consumed by trying to find a place to live, a place that will allow three dogs and a cat. Let me tell you something, that is not easy. Not one damn bit. BUT, I did it. I found us a new home. This is currently how it looks………
I don’t know who left me in charge of getting this place together, but they must have been crazy. I am terrible at organizing. That gene completely missed me altogether. It might help if I get off the computer and actually tried to get things done.
|Picture from Camp Wander blog where you can grab the recipes for all sorts of goodies|
I’ve had it with buying things that I can make myself. I started with cleaners. I stopped buying them! I make my own with vinegar and Dr. Bronner’s Sal Suds. Works wonderfully, too, I might add. Now, on to detergents. I did the math (not really) and I can save myself a ton of money by making my own. I spend at least $40 a month in detergents alone. That’s dishwasher and laundry detergents. I just spent $30 at Walmart on supplies to make my own, and it should last me a year. I will keep tabs on that and let you know exactly how long it lasts. I’m hoping this works out well. I have three elderly dogs and I’m doing laundry every damn day!! I’m not even kidding. Puke towels, pee towels, cleaning rags…..it’s tiring, and expensive. If I had been smart I would have had them put in the divorce papers that my ex pay for the laundry! It’s mostly the two older dogs who he had before we met that are making the messes. Getting old sucks.
So here I am, sitting in the kitchen, blogging, making my own soap and I can’t help but feel like I should be singing Kumbaya or something like that. Seriously! Who am I?!
Todd and I want to move. We want a place that is just ours. We can start fresh! We need this. And also, we need a bedroom with a door. The kids share the upstairs with us, but it’s an old attic with a small room with a door to the kids’ room. We had to get creative and hand bells on the doors and we turn the monitor on….just in case. I don’t want to traumatize my children by having them walk in on us, you know, making whoopie or whatever you call it when you’re a grownup. So yeah, the hunt is on!! We’re thinking of renting a crappy 3 bedroom apartment for a few years then buying a house. I want a farm. I want/need/gotta have chickens. And lots of them. I wonder if Polish chickens lay good eggs. I’m going to have to google that! Ok, just googled it and apparently they do, just not regularly. And also, there’s a whole message board dedicated to Polish chickens. Unbelievable. Oh, and in case you were wondering, this is a Polish chicken…..
That thing is stylin’!!! Lex loves this picture.
So yeah, life is good, busy, hectic and fun. We’re doin’ alright
I blinked, and now it’s 2013. Last year was full of so much craziness! I am hoping this year is better, slower. Todd and I are thinking about moving this Summer. Kevin wants us to stay here and buy this house, but honestly, I don’t want to. So much work needs to be done here and I’m not in love with this house anymore. I will miss it, but I’m not going to mourn when we leave. We want something of our own, even if we just rent for a few years and then buy. It’ll be worth the wait. I’ve decided that I want a house with a huge yard so I can have some chickens. Yes, chickens! I’ve always wanted to have little chickens running around, but never had the room. And eggs, lots and lots of eggs!!
So the purging has begun. Very slowly, but surely, I am packing things up, donating things and trying to get things going. I had forgotten how nice it is to have an extra pair of hands to help out around the house. Todd has really stepped up when I’ve needed him to, I appreciate that more than I could ever tell him. Being a single mom was not easy! I don’t think I want to do that again. Ever. LOL!!
I start working overtime here real soon. Boss Lady is having a baby in March! So glad to see my friends having babies so I don’t have to. Vasectomy is my favorite word. I have three kids, Todd has two, we’re all set. Since seeing Boss Lady’s baby bump, Lo has been obsessed with babies in the belly, and am I going to have anymore, when will she have a baby, and so on and so forth. She’s also been asking when Todd and I are going to get married. NEVER!!! I am not going to fix something that’s not broken. We’re perfectly happy the way we are. And plus, we were both married before and look what happened to those marriages! All set.
I’ve been thinking about this coming year and all the new things to look forward to, and I’m happy. Very, very happy. I just hope Life doesn’t see that as a challenge and throw me for a loop!! o.O
There’s nothing like someone losing a job, having no health insurance and being broke as Hell to light a fire under one’s butt. I love photography, I always have. Now I’m taking it one step further and starting my own business. I’m no professional, but I do have a really good eye and an even better camera. I already have 3 photo shoots lined up, and I hope to get my cards made and passed out within the next few weeks. I made a Facebook page already and I’m currently working on a website. Here’s my Facebook page. I’m very excited about this! I’m hoping to take a class next year to learn more, but for now I’m just doing what I love to do, making people happy.
I used to look at Moms that would make their own cleaners, cook like they actually knew what they were doing and think to myself “Ppft! Morons”…..but then I became a Mom myself and now I do all those things. Well, I used to. I slacked for a while there, became cheap because I had to, but now it’s different. Now I have to again. Lo loves taking bathes and naturally I scrubbed the shit outta that tub with bleach and other various trendy cleaners. Then she got a yeast infection and it was a bad one. We had no insurance, but her pedi was kind enough to tell me what to do without having to bring her in. They usually run their course in a week if you’re careful and keep things as natural as possible. So I went back to using apple cider vinegar and water to clean. God I forgot how awesome that stuff works. And my hands are super soft!! Can’t beat that! I found a website that lists all the wonderful things apple cider is good for. Here ya go…..enjoy!!
When I was pregnant with Lola we had no idea if we were having a girl or a boy up until the day before she was born. She barely moved in the womb, I had no symptoms at all and my stomach was the only thing that got big. Really big! After a very traumatic 12 hours, I gave birth to the sweetest, BIGGEST baby I had ever seen. We only stayed in the hospital for a little over 24 hours because she was soooooo good at nursing and she was obviously very healthy, so they let us leave early. She continued to be the best baby ever. Sleeping through the night from the get-go, nursing was so easy with her, she never cried, never even made a sound, even when she was hungry or needed a change. She was my last baby, and I had hit the jackpot!! Years passed and we struggled with a few issues. She didn’t walk till she was 2 1/2 due to a fever that set her back months, constipation was her nightmare and she had a brother who loved to treat her like a doll. She was such a good baby/little girl, that I didn’t even mind carrying all of her 25 pounds around till she was able to walk unassisted. I can still see the look of pure happiness on her chubby little face, reaching up to me with her chubby little arms and clinging on as tight as she could. It was blissful. Just look at her little face!!!
She was always this happy. Always! So don’t ask me what happened, because the little 4 year old living in my house is not the same little girl. She’s mean, she’s bossy and just down right rude sometimes. She has her good days and she has her bad days. When she’s having a good day she’s sweet and funny and so flippin’ cute I could squeeze her to death! But when she’s having a bad day Read the rest of this entry »