I think I'm going to join you ladies. I wanted to introduce myself so everyone isn't like when they see me posting!

I'm Ashley, mommy to Wyatt, girlfriend to Aaron. I just stopped taking BCP, and am trying to find a... different method other than condoms

Have you considered the IUD???? It's a good long term form of contraception - or even for a few months. I had mine inserted about 2 months ago, and had maybe 3 weeks of unpleasant-ness (bleeding, cramping), but now i have no problems with it - and love the fact i don't need to use those nasty condoms!