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I really have no advice, but I hope you find something you are comfortable explaining to her, if you need to explain. Growing up, my sisters and I went to church with my grandparents all the time, and with friends when we spent the night with them on the weekends. However, my parents NEVER went to church with us. I do not remember ever questioning or even thinking "Why don't mom and dad go to church?" It was just something we did with our grandparents from a young age on, or with friends. Maybe you should let her attend when she wants to, and not say anything to her about you and your DH not attending/not believing until she comes to you with questions. I think it's nice that you don't want to push your views on her, and that you are willing to let her do her own thing if she wishes. I think that's awesome! Even if the rolls were reversed, and the parents were the religious believers and the child doesn't want to follow those views, I think it's nice that parents don't insist on pushing their views on their children.
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