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September 18th, 2008, 04:30 PM
pat899 pat899 is offline
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I regret havingmy first three in the hospital. I regret letting things happen to me that I really did not want. Why oh Why did I let a stranger calm me as I pushed my daughter out totally sidelining my DH. Why did I let the OB do all those degradng cervical checks. Why did i consent to the IV after I first said no.

I wish I would have stood up for myslf better. I wish I did not let myself be coherrced, belittled, and bullied.

My homebirth healed me, but I have regrets about the first three births.
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Mom to girls: S 11, E 9, R 2, Ch born in June 2008

Mom to boys: G 7, C 5, K 4, N 3

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