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September 25th, 2008, 07:45 PM
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First off I am sooo sorry for your loss



I have experienced both types of losses...my first m/c was at 6w4d and I had a natural m/c...honestly that was the worst experience of my life...I thought I would just bleed heavily for a bit and it would be over...I ended up bleeding heacvy for 2 weeks and on the day that I actually passed my angel I was at work and looked down at my pants and they were completely soaked in blood...I thought I was hemorraging...unfortunately that was just the *natural* passing...

My 2nd loss was at nearly 12 weeks and I elected the D&C...I didn't want to be somewhere in public and unexpectedly start bleeding so bad...I'd rather know when it happenend and know that my baby was at peace...I did much better with the D&C experience versus the natural...

This is definately a personal choice that you and your DH need to make together...just know that no matter what decision you make it is the best for you...

Once again I am so sorry for your loss
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