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September 25th, 2008, 07:54 PM
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I elected to have the m/c naturally because I knew that I would be at home and I just couldn't stand the thought of them taking my baby that way. I was 17 weeks and of course very attatched (as we all are). We had seen the heart beat many times and I just wanted to have the baby come out on its own and in one peice. I was able to pass the baby in the ER which I was very grateful for, but I ended up having a d&c anyway because of hemorraging and I wouldn't have done it differently even if I knew I would have surgery anyway. In the end, you have to trust your gut for what you want to do. There is no right or wrong answer and it is just a hard and horrible situation. I am so sorry for your loss. We are all here for you.
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