hey there - i want to tell u that envisioning myself in my wedding dress really helped me push to my limits in getting fit for that day. I was even working out in the hotel gym when we got there! I think it's good to have that focus, plus u get the bonus of becoming healthier too and i think it really shows. i was looking back at pics yesterday and i glowed back then, so that's another reason why i'm back on this working out bandwagon too.
It's awesome that you and DF joined the gym, but dont let him dictate when you are going, stick to your plan!
(thats me trying to be pushy lol heheh) I also find that these days I think of the money that gets shelled out every month for the gym and that its wasted if i dont actually go, so that helps motivate me
Oh does your gym have classes too?