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April 11th, 2009, 06:29 AM
rhyssa rhyssa is offline
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Oh,sweetie ,
I understand how you feel.
While i have not gone through what you have i did loose 2 lo's last year back to back.And with this one iam finding myself keeping my distance because iam scared of loosing this one as well.
I think the connection that so many talk about, forms a a different rate for everyone.
Some might feel it immediatly, and others might take the entire 9 mths, or longer.
It does not mean that you will love your lo any less....
It took some time for me to realize that i was indeed going to be a mum, and to this day it still hits me at times. Especially when someone says :" Go see your Mum." to Gareth.
And he comes to see me!!!!

As for the crying, you go ahead and do as much or as little as you need, we're all here to listen and support you!
Have a very happy easter!
Bine
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