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April 25th, 2009, 11:24 PM
SurroDoula SurroDoula is offline
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I hope that everything turns out well for you and your baby!

I was going to post this in the other thread - for those who are really hoping for one gender, if they are told the baby is the opposite gender, in some ways it is a LOSS for them, especially if this is the last pregnancy. So they need to grieve the child that they had hoped for and dreamt about. Not unlike someone who finds out their child has something like Down Syndrome - those parents will still love the child, but they need to grieve the "normal" child they hoped they would have.
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First surrobaby (girl) arrived April 24, 2008!
Surrotwins Hayleigh and Teagan arrived September 24, 2009!




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