Topic: Unwanted help
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November 3rd, 2009, 02:51 PM
Moontan Moontan is offline
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i kind of agree with everyone else. yes, she should have asked. but...shes probably really excited...and didnt think you would mind. So...with that said...put her to work doing the things you will probably get behind in. house work, laundry, cooking, etc. moms tend to like to do those things.

i had a similar situation happen to me!...my brother lives about 8 hours away from me. and just informed me in an e-mail that he and his wife took off the first week in February (my baby is due the last week in Jan) to come spend the week with us. My husband doesnt get any time off, so i'm sure i'll welcome the company. but i did find it odd that they didnt ask first. but i guess they assumed, like your mom did, that we would welcome the extra help and company. now that i had time to get used to the idea...i am really excited...and grateful that they went out of their way to help. (plus, he didnt do that for my other sibling...so i secretly feel a little special. lol)
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