I think she should've handled the situation better, but it isn't totally true that babies do nothing that sleep the first 6 weeks. I wouldn't turn down the offer. My parents live 900 miles away and will spend the first week with me, but they'll be entertaining my older kids mainly. I don't believe they've ever asked, it's just always been matter-of-fact.

If you turn out to need a c-section, you'll recovery will be a little harder, and you might appreciate the help. I'd thank her for the generous offer, and tell her that you'll let her know when she can come to "help" you with the baby. Keep your options open, ya know?

Good luck.