[OH~Melissa]

ARGH!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! !!!! I am so pissed off that I cannot see straight. As most of you know - I don't have a great marriage - but one thing that I have always tried to do is be a unified front when it comes to our kids.

Shaun is going through a horrible phase where he is talking back all the time and when told to do something he has to make comments. This happens tonight so I tell him that after he carries the clothes upstairs he needs to stay in his room. He continues to mouth off. Kevin is sitting there the ENTIRE freakin time and doesnt say anything. This also happened yesterday. Dylan was having a complete meltdown and was put in time out. Kevin is sitting next to him on the couch. Dylan starts screaming and I am dealing with relocation stuff and say to Kevin "can you deal with him?" He says "no I am watching tv". WTH!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

I would rather raise these kids as a single mother then raise them with him when my kids know that he doesn't back me up. Up until now I have had NO complaints about him as a father ----- but this is so freakin unacceptable to me.

Would this tick you off or am I just PMS'ing? If you find my anger valid --- what would YOU do about it?