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May 18th, 2006, 04:39 PM
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ugh I hate those kinds of ppl. I mean I know it's gotta be really hard to see another wonoman involved so closely in your children's lives. I dunno what i would do if/when I had to share my kids with another person.[/b]
It's really not that bad. My ex has had a few girlfriends come and go. His current one is in jail. Just know that it's not an insult to you if they have a close relationship with their dad's new significant other. I think it makes for happier kids! My kids are older now, but they were 8 & 11 when we divorced and I started dating. I never brought anyone to meet them other than the guy I was with for 4 years and then my SO now. I never wanted them to have men coming and going in their lives, ya know?

Anyway, what I'm really saying is that as hard as it is sometimes to not speak ill of my ex and his SOs, it's just something that you have to do for the benefit and well being of my kids. They know all about him now, figured it out on their own, and I never spoke ill of him.
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