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FOB was slightly involved, but not really. I called him after every appointment and tried to include him the best I could but ultimatly I knew just about everything would be up to me. I asked FOB to suggest some names but I pretty much hated anything he came up with. I decided on the name Mason and I even chose to give him my last name. I did however let FOB have the middle name. His side of the family has a tradition where the first born males have the middle name Wade. I felt that it fit nicely and so I would keep that tradition alive (besides that it was one less name for me to come up with).
As for FOB being in the room, mine wasnt but it was because we are living in seperate states. I say that when it comes to these guys being in the room with you it has to be based on your comfort level. If you arent comfortable with the idea of his being there then say no. Trust me, when you go into labor you will want a positive atmosphere.
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