(Iam almost speechless about my situation at the moment that has to do with my older sister
I'll give you the setting and ask how you'd feel....
Were both on Facebook and she's a friend of mine (course !! were bestfriends) a few days ago while Mason was spending time with his dad, I was with SO and to get away and have some fun. We got a hotel room and had fun for the first time really since New Years... the next day on my Blackberry I get a posting on my wall from my friend as to what I was doing that day, I responded with "just having some baby daddy sex" which me and SO thought was funny and didnt think twice about... I didnt post it on my status or anything.... Well later that day I get a message from my sister how Iam so disgusting and shes deleting me as a friend from FB and all this other stuff... I just said "whatever, if it will get you more sleep at night by all means do what you have to do." So I thought it was going to blow over till a few days ago she called my dad and was telling him how im such a ***** and what I posted and stuff, he just laughed that she was trying to get me in "trouble" with him when im 22 and me and SO are together. So to cut it short it has blown up even worse with her SO in Iraq messaging me how I need to not be so gross on a social site and how I've hurt my sister. Im SOOO lost, I dont understand how it had anything to do with her. Ever since I got pregnant tho she's been distant and we dont really talk much, I'll tell her how my appt went or a name im thinking of and all she says is "oh, can I talk to dad now" so I let it go... shes 27 and I dont want our relationship so stranded !!! I want her at my shower and I want to be at her wedding (which when I got pregnant she asked me not to be maid of honor anymore cause "pregnant people arent attractive"). I hate this but feel like it will never be fixed. I guess this just turned into a vent.... thanks if you got this far
Me and her have just ALWAYS been there for each other no matter what.