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We haven't had them tested, but we think they are. I keep waiting as they get older for them to look different, but they don't. They have a lot of differences that I see, but most people don't.
As far as ttc hurting, it looks like I'm in the minority here. It hurt, but it also taught me so much. I learned so many things about my body and how to really be my own advocate and speak up for myself in medical situations. If I hadn't gone through what I did, I wouldn't have my girls and I can't imagine my life without them. I look back at the 21 months we were ttc and think about how hard it was, but how proud I am that I kept living my life and didn't let it consume me. I always try to look at the positive side of a situtation, so I guess that's the spin I'm taking on this as well. I do not dwell on the hard times, the emotional drain or the disappointment because while it took much longer (and more money) than I would have liked, it all worked out in the end.
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