I can't watch videos on my sucky connection so I haven't seen it. But with the spoon/hand feeding. Why not work on both? Kirsty uses baby stainless steel cutlery now and she knows how to load her fork but she hasn't quite mastered it. She will happily sit for agessss trying to get food on her fork, it's so sweet! Then she'll hold the fork up to me and say "ta". That's her way of asking for her fork to me loaded. I would say she is 50/50 with hand/spoon or fork now.