[Trannyfromtheuk]

Im sorry your feeling so let down - Its understandable, id feel exactly the same if it happend to me.

Cant you just talk to your mom and tell her even though you said it was ok before your acutally feeling really hurt that she cant come? Maybe if she seems how much it means to you she may reconsider?

As for Shanes parents - I have no advice really. Maybe you two can talk to her and she will see that you and Shane are very serious about this wedding and maybe tell her the reasons behind why you've brought it forward?

Also, Ifi lived closer I would come to your wedding x