Why does he need his "own" room?
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April 26th, 2010, 03:32 PM
Join Date: Sep 2005
I'm sorry but from what you've posted, I don't think you are isolated your step son at all. It sounds like he has his own space but he shares it with a desk. No biggy. Lots of kids don't have their own rooms & they live full-time in a house. I do think it's a good idea to let him pick out a bedspread & some sheets. But I don't think you need to decorate the room. Heck my kids live with me full-time & their rooms aren't decorated.
I see your Dh favoring the child. Your house rules apply to all in your house. You and your dh have to agree on that. There can't be a different set of rules for your kids & another for your stepson. That's not doing anyone any good. Your dh needs to stand up to his ex. His son is playing him as well. Sounds to me like blackmail.... "give me everything I want or I'll tell mom bad things about you"
I hope you guys can figure this out.
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