Quote:
Originally Posted by danniegirl
I have been in your shoes to be honest. DH and I are still together becuase well I did leave him. HE was texting his ex and lying about it saying that its his friend Jay is who he had it in his phone. He would ALWAYS delete his messages and the ones that stayed in didnt seem right. We got into sooo many arguments about it. I looked at the phone bill and found the number and realized the NIGHT i had lil man he was texting her all night. Well I decided to call the number and realized it was her. He was at work doing a fair thing and we visited him then that afternoon i found out so i called him and told him that i hope he enjoyed his stunt with the kids i am gone i wont say where i was then i just took off. needless to say he blew my phone up and we worked things out.
|
wow i'm glad you guys worked things out.
i spoke to him and i told him that i didn't like that he was hiding the calls and the texts from me. he said like a guy i forgot . yeah but he didn't forget to delete them from his phone he said he does it cause he knows it bugs me. he a surge's me he isn't cheating on me with her or with any one else. he told me the reason for all the calls was cause she wants him to take their son to a family birthday party we have on Saturday and they where making plans for that. he asked if i was ok with that. not happy about it but it's his son
. she doesn't take him cause she doesn't want to see me since she sent all the text to me back in dec. yet i can't wait to see her.
i will keep you all updated if anything changes. but still looking into school for my son just in case i do have to leave him.
thank you all for the
and words of advice. i know i can always come here and let it all out
