Some people! It is not anyone's business how many kids one does or does not have, how they got here, what one feed them, etc. Sounds to me like your friend wanted more, couldn't talk DH into it, and is very jealous that you got to have 2 more! I am 4th of 10. Yes, 10. I LOVE having a big family. My mom stayed home and yes, there were times money was tight, but we almost never noticed as we had food on the table and a roof over our heads. We never felt entitled, so we didn't notice if other people thought we 'went without'. I think every woman knows when she's done. For some it's 1, others 12, for some it's none. Whose business is it to tell other women how to use their uterus? And about the what the kids look like. There was a lady my mom knew who was like that. The first time my mom would come to church after having the baby the lady would walk up and say "Oh, you can tell he's a W___. They all just look like they came out of a cookie cutter!" My mom would just roll her eyes. We look like siblings, but we most certainly do not look like we came out of a cookie cutter, even as infants.
