Where is Dh in all of this?
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June 20th, 2006, 02:27 PM
Join Date: May 2006
Despite my rants on the original loss board, DH has been incredibly supportive. After the most recent loss, he took over everything house/DS related so I wouldn't have to think about it. He assumed I'd want time to myself and made it happen (wish he'd asked me about that one - bad assumption). We've been talking a lot lately and I've learned that he was scared that when I went for the d&c that he'd lose both of us, either during surgery or with a diagnosis like cervical cancer. That really shook me up. I'm trying to be better about telling him what I need and when and hoping that we'll come out of all of this stronger than we went in.
Doc said we don't need testing. We're getting pg on our own very quickly, the genes just aren't mixing right. The 2nd m/c was tested and determined to be due to trisomy 16. Doc said that likely was the problem with the first m/c as well. So, we'll ttc again and hope/pray for a better outcome.
Do not sorrow; the joy of the Lord is your strength." Neh. 8:10
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