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August 10th, 2010, 11:51 AM
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Hmm... I have two. One was an ER nurse (I was there for a cyst) She asked about pregnancies, I told her about Dominic (my only loss at the time) and she replied with "Oh, we don't count those." Talk about hurt!

The other was a classmate who couldn't get pregnant. I told her about my losses (I had miss some class after my third loss) and she replied with "Well, at least you can get pregnant." as if somehow that made it ok that my babies died. Even now that we are struggling to actually get pregnant, I still maintain I'd rather not be able to conceive than to conceive and have it ripped away from me.
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