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August 29th, 2010, 06:57 PM
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Originally Posted by OperationBabyDance View Post
I disagree, when we adopt children were going to discuss their adoptions. We actually want semi-open adoptions to make it easier for our children to meet their birthparents if they choose. (At an age they can handle.) But its a very open thing, adopting a child is a beautiful thing and I think the story/stories should be shared with family and friends and openly discussed.
There is a difference between celebrating adoption and discussing your child's personal information. Family and friends do not need to know details about your child's birth family or story of how they came into your care. The problem is that you can never take that information back once it is released. Your child has no say in how that information is spread. You are not only breaching the privacy of your child but the privacy of the birth family.

You can easily celebrate adoption without discussing personal information about a child's history.
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