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June 27th, 2006, 08:23 AM
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I know this may not be a popular idea but some people have to make less of it than it is to be able to deal with it. Maybe to her she HAD to separate herself from the loss to make it less real. If she looked at the m/c as a real baby it would be harder to deal with so for her sanity she had to make it something else.........just a thought. I'm not defending her by any means but we all have our own defense mechanisms and some cant deal with the reality of it. We create scenarios in our own minds to help us deal with reality.

Norina, just remember what happens in Vegas stays in Vegas Dont let it bother you.[/b]
"Norina, just remember what happens in Vegas stays in Vegas Dont let it bother you."
Cute ! and true! Thanks!!!
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