I don't get where people come off thinking they have the right to tell someone to stop grieving their baby or to stop being so emotional about it. I would never, in a million years, tell someone something awful like that who has lost someone - let it be a stillborn baby or a grandparent or a brother or what have you.
/end rant.
I'm sorry you're starting to deal with
those people already. I think I can safely say that all of us here have been in that situation where some people just don't understand why we're sad. Unfortunately some people out there discredit our baby for an actual baby because they never took a breath and you're probably going to come across quite a few people like that. Eventually you'll learn to just let it go in one ear and directly out the other.
