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May 9th, 2011, 08:59 AM
Heathy Heathy is offline
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The only similarity I have with your situation is that I may be dealing with an unplanned pregnancy. But it's too soon to tell. I told my boyfriend everything from the very first symptom that made me wonder if my birth control could have failed. He told me he would like to know whats going on and not be kept in the dark. But he's not happy about a possible pregnancy at all. Before I was too nervous to tell him anything, but he gently pushed to get out what's on my mind. He told me that no matter what he will be supportive...but a baby would ruin his life and could possibly ruin our relationship.

Your situation is different in that you and your ex have already had kids and have been through that journey. Maybe it could even make you grow closer? Maybe not. Every guy is different so there's no telling how he'll react. But it's probably best to tell him as soon as possible. From my experience, guys don't like being kept in the dark.
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