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May 26th, 2011, 07:39 PM
Sweetpgrl8 Sweetpgrl8 is offline
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For me the decision never came easy...I have two kids ages 5 and 3 and with both being 100% unplanned I went back and forth and in the end decided against terminating the pregnancies. When i found out about my 2nd pg our relationship was already deteriorating and I waited until I was 5 months pregnant before I told him..he actually found out when a relative was on her death bed and kept saying to people I was having another baby (she didn't know I was pregnant, hadn't seen her in years)....their father (my ex) wanted me to abort both from jump street and was very vocal about it. He still "throws it up in my face" and says "I never asked for them to be here".

Talk to a counselor or social worker about your feelings. Whatever you decide to do is in the best interest of you and your family. Good luck.
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