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July 3rd, 2011, 05:20 AM
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What he is doing right now is finding every reason that he possibly can to put YOU at fault. He realizes that the pregnancy took BOTH of you and that he is just as responsible for this baby as you are and because this doesn't fit his plan, he is trying to find any way possible to take his bad feelings and assign YOU as the source of them. This is pretty classic.

Regardless of what else in the relationship might have needed fixing, the baby situation is a team effort. He needs to pull his head out of his ***. If he wasn't going to finally split up BEFORE the baby, it makes no sense for him to want to do it NOW unless the split really is about him just dodging responsibility for anything that isn't easy...

Regardless of whether or not he takes you back, I would suggest that you save aside your own money as much as you can so that you will have a way out and finances will never be the thing that keep you with him.

I'm sorry this happened.
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