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August 2nd, 2011, 05:07 PM
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Wow. I remember reading something about this a while back.
It really really sucks that bm is doing it this way. But I honestly hope she is actually going to step up and do what she's supposed to.
You should probably disengage a bit from the whole thing
I take it your not even actually married to the dad at this point?
I understand you have been dedicated to this child and lucky for him youve been there.
But the bottom line is this situation is that it doesn't look like dad will do any court stuff and you can't really force him.
I'd just be asking myself if this is the kind of guy you want to marry and have your own kids with.
Trust me I'm wondering this myself why I didn't think things through like this before marrying dh and getting pregnant with him.
I have SERIOUS disagreements about how dh parents his bios. Those are things I should've given a lot more thought to before.

Think of it this way, if your bf doesn't care enough about his son to do what's right by him, will he do what's right by your kids together if something bad or major happens?
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