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August 2nd, 2011, 05:38 PM
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No he was not. they were with other men.

He and his ex wife were told that due to something wrong with her they would never have children. That was in the 2 year of their 11 year relationship. They never perused anything. She wanted to, he refused. they got lucky that after her losing 50lbs she did get pregnant with their son. and that turned out to be a dramatic thing that almost cost them their sons life.

So I won't push him. I'm allowed to seek what ever MA I wish, but he won't participate. I understand why, but I don't expect it to be a problem, I have answers for all my losses and only 1 was genetic and it was supposedly a fluke, but since their father has the same trisomy and never knew, and he lost another child to the same trisomy a few years later, I don't believe it was a fluke at all. the rest were from birth control (hormonal) failure and one injury that resulted in them pulling from the uterine wall.
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