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August 3rd, 2011, 11:39 AM
My2miracles My2miracles is offline
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Ugh so frustrating!!!! I hate when the bio mom does something just to be difficult. Just dealt with that myself last week.

I don't agree that you should step back. From what I remember (correct me if I'm wrong), you are the primary caregiver to this child - it's irrelevant whether your married to the dad or not.

And I wouldn't even begin to say that your BF doesn't care enough about his kid because he doesn't want to go to court. Dh & I had a long talk about that last week when his ex was acting up. He is just so tired of fighting with her. He doesn't want to fight anymore & he doesn't want to drag dsd into it either. She's now 12 & bio mom is known for not only sharing adult information but creating lies. He loves his kids more than life itself & what's going on breaks his heart. He is a great dad to our bio kid & I couldn't have asked for anyone better than him to adopt my dd.

Unfortunately things aren't black & white.
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