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September 15th, 2011, 08:11 PM
sara_elaine sara_elaine is offline
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I'm 8 weeks, and my partner and I are set on adoption. We've actually already met with a social worker at an agency today and filed our intake paperwork. Now we're faced with the decision and lots of pamphlets... open adoption or closed adoption.

I believe he wants a closed adoption... but what if I want open? What are the pro's and con's of each? The literature they've given us makes everything look so easy and perfect, but I'm not dumb and I know that I will hate myself if I make the wrong choice in this.

Birthmoms, any advice? What type of adoption do you have, and how did you decide? This is just all so overwhelming...
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