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December 22nd, 2011, 08:02 AM
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Oh yeah I totally know what you mean. I don't talk much personal stuff, but my oldest son is not biologically my husbands, but he doesn't know the difference still and he is 10. His sperm donor didn't ask to see him, in fact refused to see him, until suddenly he was going to go to court for contempt for child support. This was 2 years ago. So 8 years he's never seen this guy, doesn't even know that he exsists, much less that there is 2 'dads'. There was NO way I was going to let him treat my child like a paid service. I barely got child support the way it was, even though he was in the military. BTW on a side note if you ever want to get away with hardly paying any child support and want it to NEVER be adjusted in the favor of the one you owe, join the military. Anyway, we went through some court stuff without Noah even knowing about it, and now if he stays away he doesn't have to pay any child support. We were looking into adoption, but that's a totally different story.
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