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I never told anyone I was pregnant with any of my losses besides DH. I always wanted to tell mine and his parents in person and we lost the babies before that could happen. We told my parents right after finding out I was pregnant with Marsi. DH didn't want to tell his parents until right before we told the world...which for us was just shy of 12 weeks. At that point I was past all my loss dates and felt comfortable that this was the one that would stick. I then had bleeding issues, emergency ultrasound and everything within that week. I think I will do the same thing with any other pregnancy. Keep it to my parents only until about 12 weeks. We might wait the full 13 next time just to be out of the first trimester. Losses have made me more cautious about telling the world, but not about telling my parents.
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