Gosh I feel horrible that I have been away from the board for so long. Im so sorry.
Im sorry your daughter was diagnosed with a ASD. My son was diagnosed in utero and had OHS at 3 days old. He is still recovering and will be 3 weeks tomorrow. He was diagnosed when I was 21 weeks along so I had plenty of time to prepare. This board is very very very slow, and I have found an amazing support here
Babies and Children with Heart Problems - BabyCenter. If you ever need anyone to talk to feel free to message me. Big hugs mama!