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Yes! My best friend and I had sort of a similar conversation just the other day. She was talking about how all of our friends are pregnant and said, "you better not get pregnant anytime soon!" but I wasn't going to let her make me feel bad about what DH and I want. She kept going on & on about how we need to enjoy each other before we have a little snotty nosed leech waking us up all hours of the night crying and pooping...(but she was also very against me getting married) So I just let her know that we talked through it and this is what we want and that I really want her to be excited for us. I assured her it's not going to change anything between us and I won't ask her to babysit ;-) but it is hard on a friendship when one desperately wants a baby and the other has the view that all they do is eat, sleep, poop & cry.. But after I told her that we've started trying and she could tell how excited I am she wanted to know if she could start shopping for the baby & I'm not even pg yet! Haha. But the bottom line is if she is your friend she will be happy for you just because you're excited, even if she doesn't agree with it.
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