[Mod-Lady Valkyrie]

Welcome here Cris! I'm glad you came.

The ladies here are very wise and I think they gave you great advice. Hillarie, I love the 3 columns idea. I wish I'd thought of that myself when I first started to question things!

In addition to the suggestions you've already had hon, I would say that time in a meditative state will help, as your own intuitions will come through louder and clearer, and more frequently, from doing so. Set meditations are just one way to achieve this (and if you want to go down that route I recommend Doreen Virtue's and Artemis' meditation CDs). Spending time in nature, doing something creative, or listening to/making music can also bring you to that state.