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Originally Posted by HappyHippy
Usually when you recieve a gift you didn't provide a service.
Thank you Susan for explaning that. I think some will still feel maternal attachment because hormones play a huge part in that. Yes some of the attachment comes from knowing it's yours, planning a nursery, clothes, names, etc. But other times it's just those good ol' hormones. For example with both my kids we didn't do a nursery (we bed-share/co-sleep), and with ds2 I didn't buy anything since we knew we were having our second boy and kept all of ds1's stuff. We also didn't really do names and didn't know his name until he was born. But I still had a strong bond/attachment and I think a large part of that was because I felt awesome in pregnancy and my hormones were really high, I had a lot of "love cocktail" hormones.
Yes, but I'm asking when they don't have a contract.
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if they don't have a contract then they are obviously too stupid to make decisions for themselves.