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One thing I firmly believe is that the best way for a man to love his child is to love the child's mother. Yes, it is doable if a couple isn't together and plenty of children grow up just fine without a dad in the picture, but the most ideal situation for a child to come into would be to a home of two loving and committed parents. If this man hasn't proven his commitment to you, then I would not suggest having a baby with him. You and your child both deserve a man that will love you and be committed to you. Maybe this man will become that man, but right now he doesn't sound quite there. I completely understand the extreme desire to be a mother. I really do. Maternal instinct is really strong, but wait until you can become a mother with a committed man. That's just my two cents.
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