Hi ladies, a little update on me.
So after my chemical last cycle, my cycle has been super off but it's now CD 16 and I usually O between the 16-18th day. I ran out of opk's on Wednesday (CD13) but I was steadily getting closer to positive by that point, I figured from experience it was about 2-3 days until positive unless there was a big jump. And I can O anytime from then to like 48 hours, so we BD'd today (CD16) I think we'll try to be through CD18 take a day off then go again once more to make sure.
I'm not sure how fertile i am this cycle. I never get a ton of CM so I use pre-seed.

My period was super heavy and bright red for like 2.5 days then was just brown blood that wouldn't fill a tampon in the vagina for the next 3.
Either way, we're flying a bit blind, but we're doing our best with what we have and leaving it up to God.

it's been a very rough month for us for numerous reasons. I was supposed to leave to live in Mississippi (we're in Cali now) for 3 months for re-training for a new job in the military and they wouldn't pay for or house DH down there because apparently that's not that long. :/

we didn't know if we were even going to try this time, but that got delayed so I'm hoping it's a sign.

I have my pineapple core too (the magic charm last time) but I'm not sure when to start eating it since I'm not sure when I O. Probably today or tomorrow.
Anyway, sorry I've been MIA. Just wanted to give you ladies an update!