[Effervescence]

I'd want shared custody, almost like an open adoption arrangement going both ways. I agree with Sarah, age definitely does matter. These kids are my kids now, I have raised them and been their Mama.. with a newborn, yeah we are attached, but still in the "getting to know you phase." Not that I would have no feelings about it, I would be deeply hurt, but I think I could switch them back if I knew I'd be able to see the child I had taken home from the hospital grow and develop as well. But at the point where both of my kids are now, no way, I'd want it so I am the adoptive mother to them, and given my biological child for an open adoption to the other couple.

I think. LOL. Who knows in a true situation though!