Ok, thankfully he listened to me today. I told him about my longer cycles. Post m/c I had a 25 day cycle, a 23 day cycle, then a 20 day one. Right after that they went to 41 days and 38 and this current one I am on CD 23 and might have just ovulated. I also told him about my 2-3 day light periods and lack of fertile CM. Guess I should say the last two cycles I O'ed on CD 28 and then 24 or so, this cycle I am CD 23 and maybe just O'ed. I don't have PCOS, he did blood work for that in January and said that all looked fine.
So, he offered me a choice of wait it out, Clomid or Metformin. So, DH and I are talking that over. We are ok with twins if that happens.
So, the good, the bad, the ugly on both....go! And TIA
I'm just really thankful that I didn't leave crying and he's willing to help now.