Though Ashlynn isn't his biological child, we do parent her together so it does "dim" the spark sometimes. We just spend a lot of time together when she is in bed. Granted it means I don't sleep a ton some nights because we will be laying in bed to go to sleep and just talk..then next thing you know it's 4am! 3hrs later, Ash is awake. When baby gets here, we will probably cuddle with him together or when he's in his crib (sidecarred to our bed) we will cuddle and talk with him beside us sleeping (if he ever sleeps
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Right now we don't have trouble reconnecting at the end of the day. When baby comes, we might. I'm not sure.