my dr and i were discussing my vbac at my last apt i am now 28 weeks and she wants to induce me earlier because the baby is ahead 2 weeks and big like my son was. I had my daughter naturally and well my son he was big but that wasnt the issue his umbilical cord was wrapped around his neck and infront of his head so if i would of pushed i could of killed him hense the csection. but now im scared to have a vbac because it took me a long time to heal from the csection im so afraid i wont be able to handle it or my scar will tear... with my daughter i was in labor for a long time n pushed for what seemed forever but was 3 hours i just dont know what to think..