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I got pregnant when DD was 1 year old and I felt incredibly guilty. It was a planned pregnancy but I couldn't help but feel I was cheating her out of her time for one on one, and other opportunities. I miscarried, and didn't end up getting pregnant again until almost a year and a half later. They are nearly exactly 3 years apart and I didn't feel guilty at all with the last. I think I would feel the same getting pregnant when DS is a year. Giving them a sibling is an AMAZING gift, nothing has brought me more happiness than watching DD with her baby brother and seeing them play and grow together. I'm so happy I had a second one, and if we have a third I will once again leave a longer gap in between. I like to have enough time to feel like they got enough one on one time to start off.
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