new here, need marriage advice
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August 16th, 2012, 04:54 PM
Join Date: Aug 2012
Location: Eastern North Carolina
((HUGS)) I don't know if I have the right advice for you or not and I know you said that you have tried talking to him, but I would sit him down and and lay it out there. Let him know you are not happy and that you can't go on living this way. If he is not willing to change then you have to do what will make you happy. And I know you don't want to hurt your children, but if mama is not happy then you kids will sense this. They deserve to have a mama that feels loved and is happy.
I went thru something similiar, me and hubby have been married for almost 13 years, but have been dating since I was 14. In the past couple of years we let our marriage go (took each other for granted and didn't take time for us). We were both unhappy and ended up seperating last July. Yes our children were hurt but I think it was good for everyone. Me and the kids moved back in in April of this year and me and hubby couldn't be happier (and the kids are happy too).
Wishing the best for you
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